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Pre-Order The Ableing Shift Today

  

A Motivational Interviewing Approach to Help Your Adult Child Move from Dependence to Independence

 

A respectful extension of MI into family life — helping adult children change and grow. 

Get early access, launch bonuses, and exclusive pre-launch pricing before Jan 1. 

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 If you’re parenting a struggling adult child — dealing with mental illness, low motivation, treatment resistance, dependency, shutdown, or emotional overwhelm — communication can feel impossible:

  • every conversation turns into an argument

  • shutdowns happen without warning

  • advice is rejected

  • boundaries feel like explosions waiting to happen

  • fear makes every choice harder

  • you feel like you’re walking on eggshells in your own home

You’re not alone — and it’s not your fault.

You’ve been given strategies designed for children… or for clinicians… but not for parents of adults.

 

That changes now.

 

🌿 Introducing 

 

The Ableing Shift

 

A Motivational Interviewing Approach to Help Your Adult Child Move from Dependence to Independence 

This is the first book specifically written for parents of adult children that uses Motivational Interviewing (MI) — but adapted for home life, not the clinic.

In this book, you’ll learn how to:

  • reduce conflict and defensiveness

  • build emotional safety

  • communicate without pressure

  • use reflections that actually work

  • help your child open up

  • support movement without controlling

  • strengthen your child’s sense of capability

  • stay steady when they push back

  • guide them toward small steps and real momentum

  • rebuild connection without walking on eggshells

It’s a compassionate new path for families who have tried everything — and need something that finally fits the real world of parenting a struggling adult child.

 

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🌿 What Makes the Ableing Shift Different?

  

Because it’s built for parents — not clinicians. 

 

Other approaches (like LEAP) were created for therapists and psychiatric providers.

But parents need:

  • emotional safety tools 

  • complex reflections (double-sided, meaning-focused)

  • boundary frameworks that don’t trigger explosions 

  • fear-to-belief transformation 

  • a way to build partnership instead of pressure 

  • parent-specific MI language 

  • connection for high-emotion family dynamics

 

The Ableing Shift is the first system to bring Motivational Interviewing into the home — with the realities of family life, mental illness, trauma, and shutdowns built in from the start.

 

 

 

🌿 What’s Inside the Book 

 

✔ The Hidden Patterns That Keep Families Stuck

Why communication breaks before it begins, and how to rebuild it.

 

✔ The Psychology of Disabling 

How good intentions accidentally create dependency — and how to shift out of it.

 

✔ The Core Tools of Ableing

Calm. Curious. Connected.

Simple to learn. Life-changing to use.

  

✔ The MI Foundation (PACE)

 

Partnership, Acceptance, Compassion, Empowerment — adapted for your home, not a therapy room.

 

✔ OARS — Parent Edition

 

Open questions, affirmations, reflections, summaries — for real-life family dynamics.

 

✔ Boundaries That Build, Not Break

Firmness without fear. Warmth with clarity. Stability without conflict.

 

✔ When They Push Back

The nervous system behind resistance — and how to stay steady.

 

✔ From Motivation to Action

How to help your child feel capable again — and take the smallest, safest steps forward.

 

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🌿 Pre-Order Bonuses (Available Until Jan 1)

 

When you pre-order today, you’ll also receive:

 

🎁 Bonus #1: Early Access Book Chapter (PDF)

 

The moment your pre-order is complete.

 

🎁 Bonus #2: The Ableing Starter Kit (PDF)

A 10-page quick-start guide with:

 

  • The Four Pillars

  • Reflective prompts

  • Sample reflections

  • Boundaries script examples

  • OARS cheat sheet for parents

 

🎁 Bonus #3: Free Ticket to the December Live Workshop

“How to Help Your Adult Child Move from Dependence to Independence Without Pressure or Conflict” 

(90 min seminar + Q&A) 

 

🎁 Bonus #4: $50 Off the Ableing Academy Circle

 

Your early-bird discount is locked in automatically.

 

 

🌿 Pricing

 

Pre-Order Price: 

$19.95

(paperback)

 

$9.99

(digital)

 

Founding Weekend Special:

⭐ $17.00 paperback pre-order

 

(for early supporters only)

 

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🌿 Who This Book Is For

 

This book is for you if your adult child:

  • struggles with mental illness

  • doesn’t believe they’re sick

  • refuses help

  • avoids responsibility

  • stays at home without progress

  • shuts down emotionally

  • resists advice or pushes back

  • is stuck in fear, shame, or discouragement

  • is dependent and overwhelmed

  • has trouble launching toward independence

 

And it’s for you if you want:

  • less fear

  • more connection

  • more peace at home

  • more confidence

  • more clarity

  • and a path you can actually follow

 

🌿 A Personal Note From Bob

 

Parenting an adult child with mental illness or dependency is one of the hardest things a parent will ever face.

I know — because I’ve lived it.

This book is the compassionate, practical, step-by-step guide I wish I’d had years ago.

It’s grounded in real stories, Motivational Interviewing, behavioral science, and hundreds of conversations with parents walking the same road.

I wrote The Ableing Shift to help families rebuild connection, increase capability, and move toward hope — even in the hardest moments.

Thank you for trusting me to be part of your journey.

— Bob Krulish 

 

 

🌿  Pre-Order Your Copy of The Ableing Shift Today

and get your pre-launch bonuses before January 1.

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