The Ableing Movement – Founding Member Offer

THE ABLEING MOVEMENT · FOUNDING MEMBERS

End The Tug-Of-War.
Start Real Change—Together.

You can’t force motivation—but you can invite it. The Ableing Movement gives you the words, stance, and structure to help your adult child move toward wellness and independence without power struggles or emotional burnout.

Become A Founding Member

FOR PARENTS OF RESISTANT ADULT CHILDREN

Motivational Interviewing–informed communication you can use at home, even in the hardest moments.

Led by Bob Krulish · NAMI Washington Award · Trainer & Author of The Ableing Shift

Founding Member Enrollment $249 (one-time)

The Reality At Home

When Love Turns Into Walking On Eggshells.

If you’re here, you already know what happens when conversations with your adult child spiral.

You start calm… and end defensive.
They shut down the moment you offer help.
You carry the emotional weight for two (or more).
Every attempt to “motivate” them ends in an argument.
You feel invisible, blamed, and exhausted.

You are not alone. And you are not failing. You’re simply using tools that don’t work with ambivalence or resistance.

“Mom, just stop. I don’t need help.” The door closes. Again. And you’re left feeling like the enemy—when all you want is for them to be well, stable, and moving forward in life.

What Becomes Possible

A Calmer Home And A Motivated Adult Child.

When you shift from “telling” to Ableing, the dynamic changes—for both of you.

Conversations stay calm instead of escalating.
Defenses drop—and real listening begins.
Your adult child starts taking small, real steps toward wellness.
You stop feeling responsible for their reactions.
The relationship feels safer, warmer, and more respectful.

This isn’t fantasy. It’s what happens when your communication matches your adult child’s level of ambivalence and distress—rather than pushing against it.

The Ableing Method (LAUNCH)

A simple, parent-centered arc you’ll learn to apply:

Listen – Deep, complex listening that lowers defenses.
Ask – Gentle, strategic questions that invite—not force—reflection.
Understand – Reflect back their world so they feel seen and safe.
Nurture – Support hope without over-rescuing or fixing.
Coach – Collaborate on next steps they’re willing to own.
Honor – Respect autonomy while staying connected and clear.

This framework is built specifically for parents of adult children—not clinicians in a therapy office.

Proof & Credibility

Real Families. Real Crises. Real Change.

You’re not the first parent to feel hopeless. You also don’t have to stay there.

Parents who’ve used the Ableing approach report the same pattern:

Before: Constant blowups, treatment refusal, anger.
After: Calmer tone, more engagement, steps toward stability.
Within weeks: The first productive conversations in years.

“This is the first time my son has talked to me without yelling. I didn’t think this was possible.” — S.M.

“We’ve been stuck for 10 years. One strategy from Bob changed the entire energy in the house.” — L.B.

Who Is Bob Krulish?

• NAMI Washington Consumer Advocate Award recipient
• Trainer for NAMI’s In Our Own Voice Program
• Worked with hundreds of families navigating serious mental illness
• Author of The Ableing Shift (January release)

Parent-Focused MI-Informed Serious Mental Illness High Resistance

Founding Member–Only Bonus: Signed First-Edition Copy Of The Ableing Shift

This isn’t just another bonus—it’s a symbol of shared commitment.

“We’re in this together. This book is the foundation of the movement—and I want every Founding Member to have a signed first edition as part of our shared beginning.”

Founding Member Enrollment

Join The Ableing Movement As A Founding Member

One-Time Enrollment · $249 · No Renewals

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6 Months Of Ableing Academy Access

A $594 value. Monthly group coaching, Q&A, live demonstrations, and practice—with replay access and time-stamped notes.
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Priority Access For Q&A

Your questions go to the top of the list. Get direct coaching on your real-life situations.
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Early Chapters From The Ableing Shift

Read chapters before public release—and see the deeper framework behind the Academy sessions.
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December Workshop Included

Regular price $79. You’re in at no additional cost as a Founding Member.
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Founding Member Badge & Acknowledgment

Founding Member badge inside the community, plus the option to have your name listed in the acknowledgments of the book.
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Signed First-Edition Copy Of The Ableing Shift

Shipped with the first print run in January. A keepsake from the beginning of the movement.

Join As A Founding Member — $249

If you’re ready to stop arguing, be heard, and invite real change, this is your next step.

Questions Parents Ask

Quick FAQ

If you’re nervous or unsure, that’s normal. Here are the most common questions.

What If My Adult Child Refuses Treatment?

This program is built for exactly this situation. The Ableing strategies work with high distrust, paranoia, and deep ambivalence. You don’t need them to “be on board” to start communicating differently.

What If I Can’t Attend Live?

You’ll get access to replays, along with time-stamped notes so you can jump to the parts most relevant to you.

When Do The Signed Books Ship?

Signed first editions of The Ableing Shift will ship with the first print run in January.

Is This A Subscription?

No. Founding Member enrollment is a one-time payment of $249. You’re locked in—no automatic renewals.

Ready To Stop Fighting And Start Connecting Again?

You can’t control your adult child’s choices. But you can change the conversation—and that changes everything.

Join As A Founding Member — $249

One-time payment · 30-day refund promise · Signed first-edition book included

Claudette C.

I am sincerely grateful for your insights and support. It is not hyperbole to say that I can’t do this without you.

KAREN AND GEORGE D.

We think Bob is one of the best communicators we've ever met. He's taught us how to listen and ask the right questions at the right time not only with our daughter but also with everyone else we communicate with.

BARB O.

In the world of confusion and sadness that mental illness so often presents, Bob is a lifesaver. His is a welcome voice to turn to when there seems nowhere to turn, a pathway toward tools that can really make a difference.